There is this notion that a woman is more demonstrative about her feelings. When a woman loves a man she becomes so obvious and so transparent. Unfortunately, some men just don't get it. And I just can't imagine how frustrating it must be for a man to be wobbly with the idea if the woman he cares for feels the same way or not. With all your sacrifices and compromises, you don't need this kind of uncertainty. You need to be sure if she loves you or not. And I know how difficult it is for men to be mushy to ask his woman about stuff like these.

To help you with that, here are some few tell-tail signs that she loves you. One apparent indication is she's really affected by you. Whether you are sad or happy, she feels the same way, too. She mimics your emotions. If your boss is giving you a hard time, she helps you with your tasks or boosts your self- esteem. This also means she gets easily jealous. If she is cuddly the first minute then suddenly gives you a cold shoulder or acts she doesn't care, don't worry. It only shows she really does care. Sounds confusing? Don't fret. Most women usually deal with jealousy that way.

Just assure her that she's the only one for you and be more sensitive next time and everything will be fine. And this is another hint she loves you. When you falter and ask for forgiveness, she forgives you. One of the signs that she loves you is she wants to be with you always. She cannot get enough attention from you that it can occasionally creates conflict. I know some men who gets annoyed because they cannot stay late with friends or have the leisure of their own time. Again, assure her that she is the only woman for you and be gentle, don't drive her away.

Make her understand. And I'm sure that she will. This is another indication that she loves you. Sometimes her being understanding will be clouded by worry or affection; this is the price you have to pay for being loved by a woman. Don't view it as selfishness because it will have a negative effect in you relationship. Keep in mind always that a woman who is in love is very sensitive and needs assurance. Once, she is assured, everything will fall into place. There will be ups and downs like all relationships do but the conflict will not be as hard to deal with.

Every woman have different ways in showing their devotion; you can only see or feel this if you give time to know and feel her.

Ruth Purple
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