In my "How to Be Irresistible to Women: The Mastery Series" course, I talk with guys like Joseph Matthews about about the best ways to read female body language and recognize signals of attraction. But the truth is, women are always looking from body signals from us GUYS, as well. If we make the right moves and send the right signals, then it doesn't matter how we look or how much we make: our body communication will make women chemically and emotionally attracted to us! Body language, COUNTS.

So, with that said, let's look at the top 7 ways to flirt with women:

1. The Confident Eye Gaze

This is how you start your interest. Nothing shows confidence off the bat like meeting a girl's eyes, and KEEPING YOUR STARE. If you see her look down and smile, you know you've made it and the time to approach is now. If she looks away from you but doesn't smile, give her a shot nonetheless; just the fact that she met your eyes for a second or two shows interest.

2. The Dale Head Drop

So named after the guy who mastered the art of getting women rushing to his side, just with a simple shrug! If you really want to blow away a girl-and show some balls-meet a girl's eyes, then knowingly drop your head to the side, as if to say, "Hey, you know you want me. Come over here and get me!" I've found this to work incredibly well in foreign countries. In the States, the girls tend to be able to see through it a bit more-but it still works!

3. Smile!

It's often overlooked, but nothing communicates happiness, confidence, and interest in a girl all in one like a nice big smile. Show the girl you're in control, show her you're confident, show her you're a fun guy to be around: brighten the place up with a big smile! And if your teeth need work, then get them fixed! It's good not just for your chances of meeting a girl, but also for your health and appearance!

4. Open Body Language

So many guys walk or sit with their arms crossed, their legs close together, and their faces anxious and flat. Stop that! Welcome a girl into your world: Have your arms open and leaned back, your legs open and relaxed, your face warm and inviting. You'll not only attract yourself into a girl's world, but also into the world of people at a party, club, or bar who can help you meet a future girlfriend-or even wife!

5. Lean back her

As you're talking to a girl, especially while seated, show her your interest with confidence by leaning away. This is the confident, assured posture of the alpha man, something dating expert, Carlos Xuma, discusses in detail in my course. It forces her to lean into YOU, thereby putting you in the position of the chooser. It also communicates signals to her that she has to EARN your respect--that you're not going to just give it away. And that drives her, WILD!

Of course, when things are going well and you're starting to develop a bond, you want to lean in. You don't want to be a creep, of course, but you can generally tell by a girl's body language and tone of voice, how interested she is in you. If things are looking good, show her your control of the situation-and confidence in yourself-by leaning in and generally getting closer to her. This communicates to her that you're ready to take things to the next level. If you've done your homework correctly, she'll be ready, too.

So, what are the other techniques you need to know to get yourself to the next level?

There's also so much space to answer this question, but there is one place that has ALL the answers:

My "How to Be Irresistible to Women: The Mastery Series" multimedia course!

There are over TEN different interviews with the masters of seduction, the top gurus in their field. From Joseph Matthews and Savoy, to Carlos Xuma and Zan, these guys cover EVERYTHING. From conquering your insecurities and developing permanent self-belief, to mastering the art of the approach, even to generating sexual interest within minutes of meeting a woman: it's all in there. So check it out now!

James Brito, Relationship Expert
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