What Do Women Think When You Approach Them?

There is a VERY painful myth out there that men buy into that really hurts their chances with a woman.

And that is the myth that women DON'T LIKE IT when a guy approaches them.

Guys tend to think that they are "imposing" on a women when they start talking to her. Like they are doing something to annoy her.

This belief is re-enforced every time we see a TV show where a girl throws a drink in some poor guy's face, all because he tried to use some pick-up line on her.

In fact, some guys will even go so far as to talk themselves OUT of approaching a woman because they think she'll laugh in their face and REJECT them outright.

Now, I'm not saying that all women welcome being approached by men. Sometimes, women are tired, cranky, and not in the mood to be hit on.

But the notion that women DON'T LIKE to be approached by men is simply absurd.

In fact - most women really like it when a guy approaches them! Especially if it's a good guy and not some sleazy player-type.

This is what women REALLY feel when a guy approaches them! Make no mistake about it - unless a woman is married, she is always trying to find Mr. Right.

The real problem comes from the fact that most guys do not know the RIGHT way to approach a girl.

THIS is where rejection really comes from.

When guys don't know the right way to approach a girl, they will do things that make her angry or annoyed. And this is why the myth that girls don't like to be approached exists.

After all, it's hard to like it when guys do things like:

1. Act like a complete stalker


2. Use lame pick up lines


3. Come off as nervous and weird


4. Try and monopolize their time


5. Ask boring questions that don't engage her

When a guy approaches a girl, he needs to be confident, laid back, flirty (but not too sexual), and fun.

He's got to try and engage the girl. He's got to crack a joke, ask interesting questions, and actually want to get to know her because he really is INTERESTED in her.

In other words, he's got to be genuine!

How do I know this? Simple:

WOMEN TELL ME THIS ALL THE TIME.

In my interview series The Secret Files, I sit down with real women and pick their brains about love, dating, sex, and pretty much anything else I can think of.

And wouldn't you know it? Most of the time women are more than happy to share their secrets with me!

It's like getting sneaky "insider information" whenever I want.

And here's the good news... I am opening up my Secret Files series for YOU, so now you can learn all the powerful attraction lessons women have to share.

After all - women KNOW about all the mistakes men make when they approach them.

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Talk soon,

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Secret Seduction Files

The Secret Seduction Files is all about women teaching guys how to pick them up!

No one knows more about how girls operate than girls themselves!

Joseph Matthews interviews a new girl every month and picks her brain about all her experiences with men, love, dating, sex, you name it.

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