Hair! How to Make it Your Erotic Tool
Hair plays a significant role in most cultures. Elaborate wigs were introduced as a sign of social status in 17th century Europe. Geishas spent years learning how to create intricate styles that reflected their success. In the 1960s men grew their hair long as a sign of rebellion, and then in the 70s women cut theirs short when androgynous was the style. In the new millennium, almost every actress and model uses hair extensions to create flowing, Lady Godiva locks. With hair so much at the forefront of our consciousness, it's a wonder that it's so widely overlooked as a tool for erotic pleasure.
Whether it's long, short, curly, straight, light, or dark, your woman probably has hair. In fact, it was probably one of the first things you noticed about her. Since then, you may have begun to view it as that thing that gets in your mouth when you're making out and chokes you during sex. Well, it's time to reclaim the hair as a source of pleasure! Here are a few tricks you can use to amp up the eroticism.
- Brush the loose hairs out of her face. There doesn't actually have to be anything there, but the gesture shows that you are considerate of her. Feeling valued by you is key to her physical attraction to you. If you show that you're paying attention to her welfare, even in minutia, she will feel closer to you, and therefore happier to let you get inside her.
- Use her locks to tickle her face, neck, and wherever else you can reach. Slow and light caresses with the ends of her hair will both relax and entice her. It will mimic the feeling of being stroked with a feather. But don't let her have all the fun. Have her do the same to you, only she's not limited to just your upper body.
- Go ahead and pull it! Now, before diving right in and taking a handful, double check with your partner to make sure there's no weave action you may be yanking out. When you're passionately kissing, grab a handful at the base of her head. Yank it back, and kiss her neck. Make sure this is firm but gentle. You don't want to pull any hairs out, as that will interrupt the erotic energy. Also, if you're inside, or even hitting it from behind, go ahead and yank on her mane. Make sure you know your girl well before attempting this move. If she has any issues with dominance, she may feel degraded. However, if she has dominance fantasies, that one will send her over the edge!
Beginners Guide to the Kama Sutra
The Kama Sutra originated in India and today is known all over the world. It is probably the most ancient guide on proper sexual techniques and provides great details on how you can enjoy love making in a different way by treating yourself and your partner in a sacred manner. Quite a lot of people believe that Kama Sutra is all about very complicated sexual positions which can probably only be achieved by gymnasts.
However, this is far from reality. Kama Sutra does not really put much importance on sexual positions but recommends being in the present and practicing sexual positions which you are comfortable in and which would prolong your love making sessions with your partner.
Taking Your Best Shot at the Gym
The other day I was at the local gym in the midst of one of my all too-infrequent workouts when I spied one of the few hot chicks worth scoping out for any length of time (lots of old bags at my club, not exactly the happy hunting grounds that I thought it would be when I joined). I reflected on how the gym represents a kind of "so-near-yet-so-far" deal when it comes to meeting women, because while they are all right there prancing around skimpily-dressed and covered in sexy sweat, the environment never really seems appropriate for meeting and flirting around with them as it does in a nightclub. People are in a different frame of mind at the gym, and often broadcast a variety of different non-verbal "stay away" signals that only the boldest dare challenge.
After a little experimentation and much pondering though, I may have identified a few nuggets hiding amidst this wasteland, such as:
1) If they are locked up in their own little i-pod universe, they are 95% out of reach as far as a direct approach is concerned. I-pods and portable radios are by far the biggest cock-block going on in the gym. How do you break through to these chicks who are encapsulated in their own little world of sound and obviously trying to lock the rest of us out? You can try saying something to them, and if they see your lips moving will usually tear the headset off and ask "what?", but their annoyance at having to do so is apparent and this immediate negative posture is not easy to overcome.